BREAKUPS AND SAGITTARIUS

WHY MIGHT YOU WANT TO BREAK UP WITH A SAGITTARIUS?

The most likely reason for deciding to end a relationship with a Sagittarius is their resistance to commitment. It could be that your Sagittarius is one of the many lifelong singles born under this Sign, in which case you may eventually become exasperated by their refusal to enter into a full-time partnership with you. Or perhaps they're the marrying kind, but innately incapable of ‘being there’ for you due to their footloose ways. In either case you may decide you want someone more reliable in your life.

You may also decide to break up with a Sagittarius because of their inappropriate risk-taking, especially if this has rebounded badly on you. Notorious for their bad judgment, many Sagittarians are inveterate gamblers at heart – something you may find hard to handle if you’re the risk-averse type. 


HOW SHOULD YOU GO ABOUT BREAKING UP WITH A SAGITTARIUS?

There’s no need to try to spare a Sagittarius’s feelings when you’re breaking up with them. Their emotional hardiness means they’re quite capable of taking a breakup firmly on the chin without turning it into a huge drama. So go right ahead and tell them exactly what’s on your mind.

What they will appreciate, though, is that you show scrupulous integrity in the way you approach the breakup. In other words they want you to be totally truthful and to play totally fair – just like them. 

WHAT SHOULD YOU EXPECT IF YOU BREAK UP WITH A SAGITTARIUS?

Because Sagittarius is an exceptionally adaptable Sign, it finds it relatively easy to let and move on after a breakup. If you break up with a Sagittarius, they’re unlikely to die of a broken heart, and because they’re good sports they probably won’t have any hard feelings towards you. In fact they may even thank you for releasing them from the ‘captivity’ of a committed relationship and giving them back their romantic freedom. 

Sagittarius is famous for their philosophical outlook on life and when a relationship goes wrong they’re generally able to take it in stride. They’re also firm believers that there are plenty of fish in the sea, and that when one door shuts, another opens. There’s no need to feel sorry for a Sagittarius if you break up with them – they won’t mope for long! 
 

REASONS FOR A SAGITTARIUS BREAKING UP WITH YOU

If a Sagittarius breaks up with you, it’s often because they’ve had enough of you trying to curtail their freedom to roam. Because nothing enrages this Sign more than being tied down or fenced in, they won’t tolerate any kind of restriction. So if you have any kind of control freak tendencies, you can’t expect your relationship with a Sagittarius to last for long.

An equally important relationship dealbreaker for a Sagittarius, and a likely reason for them breaking up with you, is your lack of honesty. If a Sagittarius catches you out lying and cheating, they may find it hard ever to respect you again. Highly principled and with a fetish for truthfulness, this Sign is big on moral standards. Fail to live up to them, and you can expect to be unceremoniously shown the door.

HOW A SAGITTARIUS IS LIKELY TO BREAK UP WITH YOU

When a Sagittarius breaks up with you, it happens quite gradually and insidiously so it may take you quite a long time to spot anything is wrong. You’re probably well used to them not being around all the time, so you may not notice that their periods of absence are getting ever longer and more frequent. It’s not until a Sagittarius moves out completely, often without any explanation, that you realize it’s over as far as they are concerned.

A Sagittarius who is breaking up with you is unlikely to want the ‘big conversation’. Because they avoid emotionally charged topics like the plague, they’re not interested in hearing about your feelings, and they certainly have no desire to talk about theirs. Since they’re not very detail oriented, they’ll also be reluctant to discuss the nitty gritty of the breakup arrangements. They’ll leave all that tedious stuff to you! 

Think carefully before pressurizing a Sagittarius into telling you the honest truth about why they’re breaking up with you because you might not be able to handle it. It’s not that they want to hurt you. But because they can’t tell a lie, they can be very bluntly and cruelly outspoken at times.


HOW TO WIN BACK A SAGITTARIUS

To win back a Sagittarius ex, take a leaf out of their book, be scrupulously honest, and tell them in straightforward terms why you want to get back together. It's very important not to resort to any kind of manipulation, deviousness or games playing – all of which are guaranteed to make things even worse and reinforce their belief that you're the wrong kind of person for them.

It's important too, to adopt a lighthearted approach avoid getting too heavy. To have any chance of winning back a Sagittarius you have to convince them there's going to be some fun in it for them. So reel them in with the promise of a thrilling adventure you have planned just for the two of you. Provided you make it sound exciting enough, they won't be able to resist it!